A lack of curiosity kills relationships.

Regardless of how long you’ve been together, stay curious. The benefits of curiosity include:

Deeper understanding and connection.

Curiosity drives us to learn more about each other's thoughts, feelings, experiences, and desires. This understanding fosters deeper connection, empathy, and intimacy. Being curious about your partner signifies that they are important to you.

Growth and development.

When we remain curious about one another, we create a space of ongoing learning where both the individual and the relationship can change and grow.

Better communication.

Curiosity fosters open and effective communication. By asking questions, showing interest, and being open, we create a safe space for meaningful dialogue.

Building trust.

Curiosity demonstrates genuine interest and investment in the other person, which helps to build trust and deepens connection.

Better conflict resolution.

In conflict, curiosity helps us understand one another and focus on the underlying issue rather than who is to blame. It helps us get to a place where we are seeking to understand one another.

More fun and excitement.

Curiosity helps to keep things exciting and fresh. It encourages exploration together, whether that’s trying new activities, discussing new ideas, learning more about one another, or trying new sexual experiences.

Curiosity encourages exploration, understanding, and growth between partners. It fosters a sense of closeness and appreciation that strengthens the bond over time.

Staying curious is important because people change, their interests change, and their desires change. We are always changing and growing, and if we want to grow together and maintain the connection, then we need to stay curious about those we love. 

Love,

Lucille