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On-demand mentoring sessions for people ready to finally break the patterns keeping them stuck in love.
What Brings You Here?
If you’re here, I’m guessing something I shared on socials made you stop scrolling and think, “Wait… that’s me.”
Because you’re not new to self-development.
You’ve done therapy.
You know your attachment style.
You read Esther Perel’s books and binged Jillian Turecki’s Instagram.
You’ve devoured every podcast episode on dating, boundaries, communication, and trauma.
And yet — here you are again.
The same pattern. The same experience. The same feeling.
Whether you’re partnered or dating, the loop feels familiar:
Over-functioning.
People-pleasing.
Shrinking.
Chasing.
Settling.
Silencing yourself.
Feeling unseen.
You keep experiencing the same dynamics and recreating the same patterns inside your relationship… no matter how much work you’ve done.
You’ve tried to talk about it.
You’ve tried to understand it.
You’ve tried to “be better,” “communicate better,” “choose better.”
But the patterns don’t shift.
And that’s where I come in. I help you get underneath the cycle, to the unconscious blocks, patterns, habits, protective strategies, and attachment wounds that have been running the show long before you even knew what love was.
This is the work that reveals:
Why you over-give.
Why you choose the same partners.
Why you stay too long.
Why you settle.
Why you don’t trust.
Why you cling.
Why you shut down.
Why you leave before you can be left.
You’re not broken. You’re patterned and blocked. And while those patterns and blocks once kept you safe… they are now keeping you stuck.
With four university degrees and over a decade of clinical and lived experience, I take a direct, science-backed, no-BS approach grounded in neuroscience, attachment theory, and behavioural science. I help you see the blocks that are quietly hijacking your love life and give you the tools to actually break them.
This is for anyone who’s done the work, but still finds themselves thinking:
“Why the hell am I back here again?”
If you’re ready to go all in and address the internal patterns, beliefs, and behaviours that unconsciously prevent you from experiencing the love you truly want, then you’re in the right place.
Who It’s For
Anyone who is dating (or open to dating) and keeps finding themselves in the same patterns. Same type, same dynamic, same outcome. You’re done replaying the cycle, dealing with the same love blocks and ready to do the deeper work to change it.
Anyone who is in a relationship with someone they love, but it feels stuck. Maybe you’re hanging on by a thread, wondering if it can change. You can feel the same pattern repeating — the same conflict, the same distance, the same emotional exhaustion. You don’t want to leave. You don’t want to keep living like this either. You want a relationship that reflects the person you’ve become — not the patterns you’ve outgrown.
This work is for the ones who’ve had enough of the same old patterns and are ready to do the work to create real change.
🏳️🌈 All genders, orientations, and relationship structures welcome. I’m Queer, and this work is inclusive, affirming, and safe for all.
A little about me…
I’m a Therapist-turned-Mentor, Psycho-Sexologist, Behavioural Scientist, and Author based in Sydney. My obsession? What makes love work — and why it so often doesn’t.
After years of clinical practice (and four degrees later), I’ve seen the same truth over and over: People don’t get stuck because they don’t know what to do — they get stuck because their systems keep pulling them back into what’s familiar, because they have blocks keeping them stuck in love.
My work blends psychology, attachment theory, neuroscience, somatics, and Internal Family Systems — all grounded in a no-BS, deeply human approach. I’m here to help you break your patterns and change the way you relate.
Clarity: Get a clear, honest understanding of the core love blocks driving your patterns. You’ll finally see why you keep repeating the same cycles and what’s been running the show underneath.
Tools: Learn practical, science-backed tools to shift your behaviours in real time. From boundaries to nervous system regulation, you’ll gain the skills to choose differently and stop defaulting to old wounds, patterns and behaviours.
Integration: This is where insight becomes embodiment. We’ll explore new ways of responding, how to break the cycles that used to hook you, and start showing up differently in love.
Here’s What You’ll Get
Book a Session
Mentoring with me is a focused, results-driven space to explore and shift what keeps you stuck in love. We tackle the habits, blocks, and unconscious loops that keep showing up—so you can stop overthinking, overgiving, settling for the bare minimum and start showing up in love with confidence, clarity and worth.
We work with your mind, emotions, behaviours, and body to create real, embodied breakthroughs and actionable strategies that stick. Think of it as a fast-track to understanding your blocks and patterns, reclaiming your agency, and finally showing up differently.
The Details
One-off 90-minute session
$499 AUD
Online Worldwide via Zoom
This is for the moments you’re ready to go deep, take meaningful action, and create real change.
Not sure if it’s the right fit for you? Reach out to me directly at hello@lucilleshackleton.com
Book Your Session
Ready? Book your mentoring session and then complete the form below.
Mentoring sessions are 90 minutes and cost $499 AUD. Payment is due at the time of booking.
Tell Me More…
Complete the form below after you book and pay for your session.
You will receive a Zoom link in your booking confirmation. I will then send you a mentoring agreement, which needs to be completed before the session.
When you fill out the form…
Be raw. Be honest. Say the thing you usually hold back. Tell me what’s really going on for you. What you share here will help me prepare for our session together.
What each session involves:
What to expect during your 90-minute mentoring session
Each session is a space to pause, gain clarity, and create movement in your love life. It’s a chance to look honestly at the patterns that have been running the show—what’s holding you back, what keeps repeating, and what’s ready to shift.
Every session is guided by where you are and what’s alive for you in the moment. While each session is unique, we work through three core areas:
1. Setting the Intention — What Do You Want From The Session?
We start by grounding into your intention. What’s the one thing that, if explored or understood today, would make a real difference in your love life? What do you most want to walk away with?
This step sets the tone, giving our time focus and direction. You’ll leave this part with:
A clear sense of your goal for the session
Alignment on where to focus your attention
A grounded, intentional start
2. Exploring the Patterns Keeping You Stuck
Next, we slow down and look at the blocks, stories, beliefs, and habits that have been quietly shaping your choices in love. We explore the patterns you keep repeating—without judgment, just awareness—so you can start to see what’s actually running the show.
Here, you might discover:
Your love blocks
The patterns that are keeping you stuck and why you keep engaging in them
Old stories or beliefs influencing your decisions
How your attachment style or coping strategies are showing up
Clarity on what’s yours to keep, and what’s ready to release
3. Refocusing and Moving Forward
With new clarity comes action. In this final part, we gather insights, listen to what feels true, and map out small, practical steps to start showing up differently. This is about movement you can actually take, rooted in self-respect, confidence, self-worth and alignment with who you are becoming.
You’ll leave this part with:
Renewed focus and clarity
Practical, grounded next steps
Confidence in your own direction and choices
Mentoring sessions are for those ready to break their patterns and change how they show up in love. For those ready to embody self-respect, self-trust, and self-worth in intimate relationships.
Why Mentoring?
If you’ve tried therapy, coaching, or self-help strategies and still feel stuck in your dating life, relationships, or personal growth, mentoring might be the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for.
Focused. Each session is designed with intention. We start by clarifying what you most want to get out of our time together—your goal, challenge, or desired shift—and we keep our work laser-focused on that. No fluff, no distractions. Just clarity, insight, and action.
Strategic. We dig into the patterns, beliefs, and habits that have been quietly running the show in your dating life and relationships. By understanding what’s really holding you back, we can design strategies that actually work—practical steps that move you toward the love, connection, and self-respect you want.
Embodied & Practical. This isn’t just about thinking differently—it’s about feeling, practising, and showing up differently. We combine reflection, somatic awareness, and practical exercises so that insights translate into action. You leave the session with tools you can use immediately to break old patterns and start stepping into new ways of relating and choosing.
Mentoring is a deep, one-on-one space to explore the “why” behind your patterns—your relational history, unconscious habits, and emotional blocks—and move toward the “how”: actionable, embodied, and real change.
You don’t need to prepare, other than bringing your goal or focus. We’ll start where you are, go deep into what’s really running the show, and finish with a clear roadmap to help you create measurable shifts in your dating life, relationships, and self-expression.
This is integrative, transformational work. It’s practical, real, and it creates real change.
Have Questions?
Not sure if it’s right for you? Reach out to me directly at hello@lucilleshackleton.com
FAQs
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If you’re done repeating the same painful patterns and ready to finally see your blocks clearly, take ownership, and do the work to change them—this program is for you.
This program is a hands-on, science-backed mentoring program where we dive deep into the hidden patterns, beliefs, and behaviours that quietly hijack your relationships. We explore the wounds, blocks, and protective strategies you built before you even knew what love was, and how they are keeping you stuck. And you get the tools to finally break free.
This is where you stop abandoning yourself, stop settling, stop performing, and stop choosing from your unconscious blocks. This is where you learn to spot your patterns with brutal honesty, and do the work to create real, lasting change in how you show up in love.
All sessions are via Zoom in English. The mentoring program is offered in two formats - a group format of up to 8 people per group, or a completely customised individual format.
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This is a one-on-one, transformational approach designed for people ready to step fully into themselves, grow personally, and enhance their relationships. Each session provides a deep, focused space to explore your love blocks and shift the patterns, habits, beliefs, and behaviours that have been holding you back.
Each session is 90-minutes and is held online via Zoom. There is no fixed number of sessions you need to book or engage in. Have one, or more it’s totally guided by you.
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While therapy focuses on healing past wounds, processing trauma, and resolving psychological challenges, this mentorship is forward-focused and growth-oriented. It’s designed to help you understand your patterns, gain clarity, and take intentional action in your life and relationships.
Unlike traditional therapy, which often revolves around exploring past experiences, the mentorship is practical, goal-driven, and transformational, combining self-discovery, somatic work, mindset work, and actionable strategies to create lasting change.
This is specifically for people who have done therapy, understand their patterns but still just cannot seem to shift them. They get it on an intellectual level, but can’t seem to get the change they really want. That was me, and that is why I have created this offering.
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‘All In’ is now available in print, ebook, and audio. To find out where you can get your hands (or ears) on a copy, check out the Penguin Random House website here.
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I am no longer offering therapy. The only way to work with me directly is through my mentoring program or to book a 1-1 mentoring session.
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Yes. For the individual and group mentoring programs, you have the option to pay in full or to pay in 3 instalments.
I do not offer payment plans for one-off mentoring sessions or educational resources.
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All sales of services and educational resources are final and non-refundable.
I encourage you to read the terms and conditions HERE before purchasing any educational resources, enrolling in the mentoring programs or purchasing a 1-1 session to ensure it’s the right fit for you.
Please note* I have a 48 hour cancellation policy for 1-1 sessions.
These sessions require full commitment. For that reason, all sales are final and non-refundable.
I encourage you to read the terms and conditions HERE before booking a session to ensure it’s the right fit for you.