ABOUT lucille

Hello, I’m Lucille (she/her).

I’m a Counsellor, Psycho-Sexologist, Behavioural Scientist, and Author based in Sydney with an obsession for everything love, sex, dating, and relationships. I am so obsessed I wrote a book called ‘All In’ which is being published by Penguin Random House in Jan 2025.

I am a queer, cis woman living and working on Gayamaygal land. I have worked in the mental health space for over a decade and am trained in lots of different modalities (which you can read about below) but at the end of the day I know from personal experience finding a therapist is more about finding someone you click with so if you'd like to learn more about me or do a vibe check, please head over to my Instagram or TikTok @lucille.shackleton or book yourself in for a session. 

  • Master of Science in Medicine (Psychosexual Therapy). The University of Sydney.

  • Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling. The University of  Tasmania.

  • Graduate Certificate in Public Health. Curtin University.

  • Bachelor of Behavioural Science. The University of Notre Dame.

  • I am a member of:

    • the Australian Counselling Association (ACA). 

    • the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS).

education & training

I have completed professional development training in the following therapeutic approaches:

  • Level 1 & 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy.

  • Schema Therapy.

  • Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy.

  • Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT).

  • Internal Family Systems Therapy.

  • Imago Couples Therapy.

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.

  • Somatic approaches to psychotherapy.

  • Tantra for individuals and couples.

  • Radical Exposure Tapping, Level I (Deactivating the Buttons).

all about therapy

  • Rapport is such an important part of therapy. Honestly, the relationship you have with your therapist greatly influences what you get out of therapy which is why it’s so important to choose a therapist you click with.

    My approach is inclusive, supportive and interactive. I'm not a therapist who just sits and nods but rather I will engage with you, I will explore with you and I will guide you through activities and give you tools to support your growth.

    I am trained in many different modalities but the truth is one of the reasons I got into this work is because of my own challenging experiences. I get it. I know how it awkward, scary and uncomfortable it can feel to navigate this stuff and not know where to seek support. It’s because of this that I am so passionate about creating a space where you feel safe, heard, seen and free to explore whatever it is you’re experiencing.

  • Counselling sessions are $220 for individuals and $242 for couples. All sessions are 50 minutes and are offered online via Zoom across Australia.

    Medicare - Please be aware that sessions with a sexologist/counsellor are not currently eligible for rebates through Medicare.

  • Individual and couple counselling sessions go for 50 minutes and are online via Zoom. Once you book in via the link you will receive and email confirmation and consent form. The consent form just needs to be completed before the first session.

    It’s normal to be a little nervous before the session. It can be daunting to talk about this stuff but I assure you, I will do everything I can to help you feel comfortable. We will go at a pace that feels good to you. The first session usually focuses on exploring what you’re looking for support with and sets some goals for our work together. From there, those goals will guide how we move forward in our sessions and what we focus on.

    If you have any questions please feel free to reach out hello@lucilleshackleton.com

all about sexology

  • Sexology is the scientific study of human sexuality. It explores everything related to sexual behaviours, experiences, sexual function, sexual health, pleasure, sexuality, libido, desire and gender.

  • As a Sexologist, I specialise in helping folks to navigate everything sex, sexuality and gender related. My goal is to create a safe, inclusive, non-judgmental space where we can explore and address any concerns you have. Maybe you’re experiencing differences in desire with your partner, or are exploring your sexuality, or maybe you are wanting to build sexual self confidence and experience more pleasure, or maybe you’re struggling with sexual functioning. Whatever brings you here, I am here to support you. 

  • Sexology sessions are $220 for individuals and $242 for couples. All sessions are 50 minutes and are offered online via Zoom Australia wide.

    Medicare - Please be aware that sessions with a sexologist are not currently eligible for rebates through Medicare.

  • Sexology sessions go for 50 minutes and are online via Zoom. Once you book in via the link below, you will receive and email confirmation and consent form. The consent form just needs to be completed before the first session.

    It’s normal to be a little nervous before the session. It can be daunting to talk about this stuff but I assure you, I will do everything I can to help you feel comfortable. We will go at a pace that feels good to you. The first session usually focuses on exploring what you’re looking for support with and sets some goals for our work together. From there, those goals will guide how we move forward in our sessions and what we focus on.

    Oh, and it’s a no touch service which might sound obvious as it’s online but it’s a common question so needs to be said regardless.

    If you have any questions please feel free to reach out hello@lucilleshackleton.com