Hi, I’m Lucille
I’m a Human Insight Specialist. For over a decade, I’ve worked with the patterns that quietly shape how people live, love, relate, behave, choose, and work — across clinical practice, education, writing, and consultancy.
My work is grounded in behavioural science, neuroscience, attachment and depth psychology approaches.
What distinguishes my work isn’t the breadth of my training, but my ability to help people and corporations translate insight into change that is lived, not just intellectually understood.
Work With Me
Consulting
Decoding Human Behaviour to Shape Decisions and Culture
I consult with organisations, founders, creatives, and leaders on the human dynamics that drive performance, culture, and decision-making.
This includes:
Identifying the behavioural patterns and blind spots that limit engagement, performance, and innovation
Designing interventions that shift culture, influence behaviour, and improve psychological safety
Advising on power dynamics, leadership effectiveness, and organisational decision-making
Translating human insight into programs, platforms, and strategies that actually get results
Providing thought leadership, writing, and guidance that bridges science and practical application
I’m often brought in where complexity is high, stakes are real, and simple solutions won’t work — turning insight into action that creates measurable impact.
Mentoring
Insight Into Action: Mentoring for Results
I work with people who are ready to change the parts of their lives that aren’t working.
Whether it’s leadership, career, love, or relationships, I help you uncover the hidden patterns, habits, and blind spots that silently keep you stuck and limit your performance, confidence, and impact.
We turn insight into action, complexity into clarity, and get results that actually stick. These mentoring sessions are for people ready to operate at their full potential and embody the version of themselves they know they’re capable of being.
Get In Touch
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Meet Lucille
I’m a Human Insight Specialist with over a decade of experience working at the intersection of human behaviour, relationships, motivation, identity, meaning and performance — in clinical practice, education, advisory roles, and education.
I hold a Bachelor’s Degree in Behavioural Science and Sociology, Advanced Postgraduate Degrees in Public Health and Counselling, and a Master of Science in Medicine.
I work with people and corporations to uncover the hidden patterns, habits, and blind spots that quietly shape how they operate — and often hold them back. My work sits at the intersection of insight and action, helping high performers, leaders, and teams translate understanding into tangible, lasting change.
I’m passionate about helping people operate from clarity, confidence, and coherence — whether it’s navigating identity, decision-making, leadership, culture, or relationships. I bring a direct, science-informed, no-BS approach that honours complexity without overwhelming it, helping clients move from stuck to strategic, from insight to action, and from potential to performance.
I’m recognised for my ability to translate complex psychological and behavioural concepts into practical strategies, collaborate across disciplines, and balance clinical integrity with operational realities. My approach is human-centred, ethically grounded, and designed to create environments and relationships that reduce risk, prevent escalation, and support long-term wellbeing — whether for individuals, teams, or organisations.
At the core of my work is helping people and organisations uncover the hidden patterns, behaviours, and blind spots that quietly shape how they operate — and often hold them back. I work with high performers, leaders, and organisations to turn insight into action, navigate complexity with clarity, and create real, sustainable change.
Get My Book
Redefine how you approach love,
sex and relationships.
This inclusive, empowering guide is your go-to for navigating the intricacies of modern romance. Whether you’re looking to rejuvenate an existing relationship or embark on a new journey towards meaningful connection, All In serves as your modern-day compass, offering practical wisdom and heartfelt insights to help you cultivate the love and intimacy you truly desire.
All In will help you:
- Unlock your past, your wounds and your attachment style to learn how they shape the way you engage in relationships and what you need from a partner.
- Break free from cycles that no longer serve you.
- Transform conflict into opportunities for personal growth.
- Master the art of productive communication in a relationship.
- Explore your deepest desires and enhance your sexual self-esteem.
- Discover the key to a more fulfilling, pleasure-filled sex life.
This book offers warm but real, practical advice for anyone seeking to build secure, loving and intimate relationships in the contemporary world.
All In is your essential guide for relational recovery and healing, leading you to reveal deeper connections with yourself and those around you.
Love Shadows
Are your Love Shadows keeping you stuck?
Do you feel like you keep attracting the same kind of partner… or the same relationship struggles… no matter how much you’ve grown and how much work you’ve done?
It’s not you—it’s your love blocks aka your Love Shadows.
Love Shadows are the internal patterns, beliefs, and behaviours that unconsciously prevent you from experiencing the love you want. Unlike the love languages concept by Gary Chapman, which explores how you give and receive love, Love Shadows reveal what gets in the way, so your wounds, coping strategies, and habitual responses that replay across relationships.
Shaped by your early experiences, attachment style, and nervous system programming, these shadows often appear as automatic protective strategies that once kept you safe, but now keep you stuck.
Love Shadows is a form of shadow work because it guides you to uncover, face, and integrate the hidden patterns, wounds, and disowned parts of yourself that keep you stuck in love and life.
more offerings
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‘All In’ is an inclusive and empowering guide for navigating the intricacies of modern romance. Whether you’re looking to rejuvenate an existing relationship or embark on a new journey towards meaningful connection, All In serves as your modern-day compass, offering practical wisdom and heartfelt insights to help you cultivate the love and intimacy you truly desire.
‘All In’ is now available in print, ebook, and audio across Australia and New Zealand. To find out where you can get your hands (or ears) on a copy, check out the Penguin Random House website here.
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I maintain a small private practice in Sydney. If my work resonates and you’d like to explore therapy, please reach out via email hello@lucilleshackleton.com. Sessions are currently $220 for 50 minutes.
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If you are interested in having me on your podcast, speaking at an event, or providing comments for media, please reach out to me directly via email hello@lucilleshackleton.com
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Are you a therapist or coach who wants to grow your online presence, create impactful content, and build a thriving private practice? I offer mentoring that helps you show up confidently online, engage your audience, share educational material that truly resonates, and develop a private practice you love.
Sessions are 45 minutes, online via Zoom, and cost $299 USD. Interested? Reach out to me directly via hello@lucilleshackleton.com to get started.

