Love Shadows Program
A 3-month group mentoring program for people ready to break the patterns keeping them stuck in love.
Love Shadows
3-Month Group Mentoring Program
What the program includes:
A 3-month deep-dive into the patterns shaping your love life.
✦ Group Sessions: Bi-Weekly 2-Hour Group Mentoring Session (6 total sessions over 3 months)
✦ Individual Mentoring: One 90-minute 1:1 session with me per month
✦ Pre-Work Video: A pre-recorded video for every module is released on Fridays to prepare for the group mentoring call and is downloadable and yours to keep. The modules will cover all 10 of the core Love Shadows in depth.
✦ Small Groups: Maximum 8 members per group
✦ Time Options: PST & EST session times available
Investment: $4,999 USD in full or by 3 monthly payments.
Next Enrollment Dates:
Spaces are strictly limited. Next intake is in Jan 2026.
Apply Now to Claim Your Spot.
Hi, I’m Lucille…
I am a Behavioural Scientist, Psycho-Sexologist and Therapist, turned Mentor. I help people break their dating patterns, raise their standards, and embody self-worth in love.
Let me guess…
You’ve got your life together. You’re smart, self-aware, and yet when it comes to love… that’s where things get messy.
You keep attracting the same type — emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or just not ready. You overgive, overthink, or overstay. You know better, but something deeper keeps pulling you back into the same story.
That’s where this work comes in.
This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about breaking patterns, raising standards, and reclaiming your agency in love. It’s about dating and relating from self-worth, not survival.
Awareness isn’t enough. It’s time for action.
Here, we do the inner work that changes your outer world. We untangle the unconscious patterns that keep you chasing, proving, or performing for love and teach you how to choose differently. Using relational psychology, neuroscience, attachment science and behavioural science, you’ll learn how to embody self-respect, self-trust, and self-worth in every relationship you enter.
Love Shadows is my signature Group Mentoring Program and is designed for people like you — ready to uncover the unconscious drivers that have kept them repeating the same loops in love.
…because I see you, I get you, I was you!
For years, I couldn’t figure out why I kept ending up in the same kinds of relationships. Knowing better… but still doing the same thing.
It wasn’t until I stopped asking “Why do I keep choosing this?” and started asking “How can I change this?” that everything began to shift.
That’s actually how I became a relationship therapist. I didn’t study relationships just to help others — I did it to help myself! I wanted to understand why smart, capable, self-aware people like us get stuck in cycles that don’t serve us, and how to finally break them.
Through studying behavioural science, psychotherapy, relationship therapy, and psychosexual therapy, I learned that the patterns and blocks we experience in love aren’t who we are — they’re how we learned to survive. And once we understand them, we can change them.
In my years working as a relationship therapist and psychosexual therapist, I noticed the same 10 core blocks showing up again and again—patterns that quietly keep people stuck in love. Love Shadows is built from these real-world themes, shaped by what I saw in clinical practice, and the exact work that helped people break free from their blocks, shift their patterns, and start experiencing real, lasting change in love and relationships.
Today, I’ve stepped away from therapy so I can make a bigger impact. I’ve created an individual and group mentoring program to bring together everything I’ve learned — personally and professionally — to a space where I can help people like you stop repeating old patterns, stop self-abandoning, stop chasing, raise their standards and start choosing love that honours their worth.
Everything I share comes from both sides of the couch — the therapist and the human because I’ve been there… stuck, frustrated, and wondering if real change is even possible.
My work is for those who have already done the work but still feel stuck. You’ve done the therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts — you don’t need more of the same. What you need are the tools, structure, and support to finally change your patterns and address the blocks keeping you stuck.
Why I do what I do…
This is legit.
If you want real, science-backed tools from someone who has spent over a decade studying relationships, human behaviour, and sexuality, has four university degrees in this field, and has actually lived and applied this work herself, then this program is for you.
This work combines evidence-based strategies, somatic and relational insight, and hands-on mentorship to help you finally understand your patterns, reclaim your boundaries, and make confident choices in love.
It will support you to stop abandoning, to stop obsessing about people who are no good for you and to start honouring yourself and make decisions based on what you actually want, and to confidently walk away from what you don’t.
Who is it for?
This work is for anyone who has done the inner work, but still finds themselves shrinking, chasing, or settling in love.
We explore the deep, often invisible drivers behind relational self-sabotage: the parts of you that equate love with proving, peace with boredom, and vulnerability with risk. Together, we’ll unravel the unconscious contracts you’ve made in love — and rewrite them from sovereignty, not scarcity.
Because change doesn't come from self-awareness alone, it comes from behaving differently, choosing differently and showing up differently.
Together, let’s break your dating patterns, redefine what you accept, expect, and attract in love.
This is for anyone who…
Is done overfunctioning in relationships.
Is done accepting the bare minimum and obsessing over people you don’t even like that much.
Is ready to take full responsibility for their patterns without blaming themselves or anyone else, and do the work to create change.
Want to stop overthinking, overfunctioning, and attracting unavailable partners.
Want to show up fully, and finally let love in — without losing themselves.
Is done with theory and ready for practical, real-world shifts that actually work
More specifically, this is for anyone who:
Is dating (or open to dating) and keeps finding themselves in the same patterns. Same type, same dynamic, same outcome. You’re done replaying the cycle and ready to do the deeper work to change it.
Is in the early stages of a relationship (around 3–6 months in) and can feel old patterns creeping back in — the overthinking, people-pleasing, shrinking, or losing yourself — and you want to stay grounded, self-led, and connected to your truth as things deepen.
You’re someone who has got your shit figured out everywhere but in love. You’re smart, self-aware, and still stuck in cycles of self-abandonment, “pick-me energy,” or low standards — ready to finally embody self-worth in how you date.
You want love that feels mutual, steady, and real — without losing yourself in the process.
🏳️🌈 Just a heads up: This work is for everyone, regardless of gender or sexuality. I’m Queer, and Queer folk are fully welcome here.
The Transformation
(What You Actually Get)
This isn’t just a course.
This is the moment your love life finally catches up to the rest of your life.
Because the truth is:
You don’t need more information.
You don’t need more “awareness.”
You don’t need more theory on attachment styles.
You need change — real, embodied, identity-level change.
And that’s exactly what Love Shadows delivers.
What you’ll get
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12 Transformational Modules
Each week you’ll receive a video lesson (released on Fridays) that dives into the psychology, neuroscience, and relational dynamics behind your patterns — so you arrive to each session informed and ready to go deeper. -
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1 × 90-Minute Private Mentoring Session Each Month
Personalised guidance to help you integrate what you’re learning into your real-life dating and relational experiences. -
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Small, Intimate Group of Up to 8 Members
An intentionally curated community of like-minded people who are ready to grow, hold each other accountable, and cheer one another on. -
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A Safe Space for Growth
You’ll be supported, challenged, and guided by someone who’s been on both sides of the couch — both a therapist and a human who has learned first-hand how to break patterns and create safe and healthy love. -
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Powerful Implementation Tools
Each module comes with everything you need to not just understand what’s happening and why, but to create tangible change and to help you actually live what you’re learning.
Why Group Mentoring Works - Power in numbers 💥
There’s something transformative about seeing your patterns reflected in others and being held accountable by people who get it. In the group, you’ll:
Connect with others facing the same dating struggles
Receive encouragement and accountability to take real action
Gain momentum and clarity as you implement each week’s insights
Feel supported, seen, and challenged in the right way
✨ By the end of our 3 months together, you’ll have:
Clarity on your dating patterns and why they repeat
Confidence to stop chasing and start choosing
Emotional tools to self-regulate and stay grounded while dating
Boundaries to actually honour yourself
A deep sense of worthiness and self-respect in love
Start Today
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Start Today ☆
Join the group
Are you ready?
Investment: $4,999 USD
You can pay in full or choose a monthly payment plan. The payment plan is 3 payments charged on the 1st of each month you’re enrolled in the program.
This number isn’t random — 4999 is a number of sacred endings. Not loss, but liberation.
A chapter of your love story is ending.
You’re stepping into a new era of clarity, confidence, and self-respect.
Interested but on the fence?
Want to talk about whether the group is the right fit for you before you commit?
Book a discovery call with me and let’s chat!
Are you ready?
The Application
Apply to join the program by completing the application form below, and I will be in touch with you ASAP.
Please note spaces are strictly limited.
Once you submit the form, I will reach out to you via email within 48 hours.
✺ Frequently asked questions ✺
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Group sizes may vary; however, they will never exceed 8 people per group. You are with the same people for the 3-month program.
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The group mentoring program is 3 3-month deep-dive into transforming how you show up in love. You’ll get:
✦ Group Sessions: Bi-Weekly 2-Hour Group Mentoring Session (6 total sessions over 3 months)
✦ Individual Mentoring: One 90-minute 1:1 session with me per month
✦ Pre-Work Video: A pre-recorded video for every module is released on Fridays to prepare for the group mentoring call and is downloadable and yours to keep. -
This program is designed to fit into a busy life. You can do all the pre-recorded learning at your own pace whenever it suits you. The mentoring sessions do require your presence as they are live. The commitment is 2 hours every second week. Individual mentoring is 90 minutes once per month, organised around your schedule.
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This program is for people who have got their life together — everywhere but love. You may notice repeating patterns, “pick-me” energy, or low standards. If you’re ready to stop shrinking, stop chasing, and start choosing, this program is for you.
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If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns, raise your standards, and embody your self-worth in love — and you’re willing to do the inner work — this program is for you. The application process helps ensure we’re a great fit.
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Absolutely. Whether you’re dating, open to dating, or in the early stages of a relationship, this program will give you tools to stay grounded, self-led, and aligned with your worth.
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Therapy helps you process the past, heal wounds, and understand why patterns exist. Mentoring, like this program, gives you actionable guidance, tools, and strategies to change how you show up in real life — so you can break cycles, raise standards, and create the love you actually want.
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It’s a small, intimate group program with live coaching calls and a supportive, private community. You’ll have access to guidance from me and the group, which creates accountability, reflection, and connection with like-minded people.
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This program requires full commitment. For that reason, all sales are final and non-refundable.
I encourage you to read the terms and conditions HERE before enrolling to ensure it’s the right fit for you.
Are you ready?
Let’s do this together!
Interested but want it all 1 to 1?
If you’re drawn to Love Shadows — the content, the depth, the focus — but prefer a personalised experience, you can complete the program one-on-one with me.
If you’re craving focused, personalised support — the kind of depth only possible in 1:1 work — this is your invitation.
This program requires full commitment. For that reason, all sales are final and non-refundable.
I encourage you to read the terms and conditions HERE before enrolling to ensure it’s the right fit for you.