Love Shadows Program
A 3-month individual mentoring program for people ready to break the patterns keeping them stuck in love.
Love Shadows
3-Month Individual Mentoring Program
What the program includes:
A 3-month deep-dive into the patterns shaping your love life.
✦ 1-1 Mentoring Sessions: Bi-Weekly 2-Hour Mentoring Session (6 total sessions over 3 months)
✦ The Content: No watered-down, generic, one-size-fits-all guidance. Every lesson is built for you, rooted in your exact shadoes, patterns, goals, and lived experience. Each week, you receive a custom, recorded lesson designed to move you forward fast — nothing generic, nothing shared, nothing diluted. Customised lessons are specifically written and recorded for you based on your history and what comes up in our mentoring sessions.
✦ Text/Voice note Support and Weekly Check-ins: Between sessions, you have the options for both text and voice note support as well as weekly phone check-ins to keep you on track.
Investment: $9,999 USD
Why Invest in This Work:
This program is designed for high-achievers who value exclusivity, privacy, and results. It's for those who have already invested time and energy into therapy and reading, and have not got the results they wanted.
This is a 3-month container of transformation, not just education.
The cost reflects the intensive mentorship, access to expertise, and the customised resources included.
Spaces are strictly limited. Next intake is in Jan 2026.
Apply Now to Claim Your Spot.
Hi, I’m Lucille…
…and I am a Behavioural Scientist, Psycho-Sexologist and Therapist, turned Mentor. I help people break their relational patterns, raise their standards, and embody self-worth in love.
Let me guess… you’ve got it all, except for the thing you care about the most.
You’ve got your life together. You’re smart, self-aware, accomplished — yet when it comes to love, that’s where things still get messy.
You attract the same type: emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or just not ready.
You overgive, overthink, or overstay.
You know better… and yet something keeps pulling you back into the same story.
That’s where this work comes in.
This is not about fixing you. You’re not broken.
This is about breaking patterns, raising standards, and reclaiming your agency in love.
It’s about dating and relating from self-worth — not survival.
Awareness is not enough. This is the place where insight becomes action.
Here, we do the inner work that changes your outer world. We untangle the unconscious patterns that keep you chasing, shrinking, proving, or performing for love — and teach you how to choose differently.
Using relational psychology, neuroscience, attachment science, and behavioural science, you’ll learn how to embody self-respect, self-trust, and self-worth in every relationship you enter.
Love Shadows is my signature mentoring program, which I offer both individually and as a group. This is self-worth, strategy, and the science of choosing differently.
…because I see you, I get you, I was you!
For years, I couldn’t figure out why I kept ending up in the same kinds of relationships. Knowing better… but still doing the same thing.
It wasn’t until I stopped asking “Why do I keep choosing this?” and started asking “How can I change this?” that everything began to shift.
That’s actually how I became a relationship therapist. I didn’t study relationships just to help others — I did it to help myself! I wanted to understand why smart, capable, self-aware people like us get stuck in cycles that don’t serve us, and how to finally break them.
Through studying behavioural science, psychotherapy, relationship therapy, and psychosexual therapy, I learned that the patterns and blocks we experience in love aren’t who we are — they’re how we learned to survive. And once we understand them, we can change them.
In my years working as a relationship therapist and psychosexual therapist, I noticed the same 10 core blocks showing up again and again—patterns that quietly keep people stuck in love. Love Shadows is built from these real-world themes, shaped by what I saw in clinical practice, and the exact work that helped people break free from their blocks, shift their patterns, and start experiencing real, lasting change in love and relationships.
Today, I’ve stepped away from therapy so I can make a bigger impact. I’ve created an individual and group mentoring program to bring together everything I’ve learned — personally and professionally — to a space where I can help people like you stop repeating old patterns, stop self-abandoning, stop chasing, raise their standards and start choosing love that honours their worth.
Everything I share comes from both sides of the couch — the therapist and the human because I’ve been there… stuck, frustrated, and wondering if real change is even possible.
My work is for those who have already done the work but still feel stuck. You’ve done the therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts — you don’t need more of the same. What you need are the tools, structure, and support to finally change your patterns and address the blocks keeping you stuck.
Why I do what I do…
This is legit.
If you want real, science-backed tools from someone who has spent over a decade studying relationships, human behaviour, and sexuality, has four university degrees in this field, and has actually lived and applied this work herself, then this program is for you.
Love Shadows combines evidence-based strategies, somatic and relational insight, and hands-on mentorship to help you finally understand your patterns, reclaim your boundaries, and make confident choices in love.
It will support you to stop abandoning, to stop obsessing about people who are no good for you and to start honouring yourself and make decisions based on what you actually want, and to confidently walk away from what you don’t.
Who is it for?
This work is for anyone who has done the inner work, but still finds themselves shrinking, chasing, or settling in love.
We explore the deep, often invisible drivers behind relational self-sabotage: the parts of you that equate love with proving, peace with boredom, and vulnerability with risk. Together, we’ll unravel the unconscious contracts you’ve made in love — and rewrite them from sovereignty, not scarcity.
Because change doesn't come from self-awareness alone, it comes from behaving differently, choosing differently and showing up differently.
Together, let’s break your dating patterns, redefine what you accept, expect, and attract in love.
What You Really Want (Even If You Don’t Say It Out Loud)
This is my guess based on the work I have done with so many people just like you…
You’ve got your life together. Career on point. Friends you love. Your finances are solid. And yet — when it comes to love? Chaos.
You’re tired of looking at your dating life and feeling a disconnect between who you are publicly and who you become when you’re in a relationship. That smart, confident, high-achieving version of you… disappears. And in their place? Overthinking, shrinking, obsessing, or settling.
You’re ready for alignment. You want your love life to finally match the rest of your life — seamless, intentional, and true to who you are.
You want to feel proud of your decisions in your love life.
No more waking up after a weekend of texting, ghosting, or compromising, thinking, “I can’t believe I let that happen again.” You want clarity and certainty. You want to show up fully, make choices that honour you, and not regret them.
You want to choose instead of chase.
Not because you’re lucky. Not because someone finally notices you.
But because you’ve learned how to date from agency not scarcity; from self-worth, not fear. You’re done shrinking, waiting, or accepting crumbs. You’re ready to step into sovereignty — to lead your love life instead of reacting to it.
You want to break the pattern without breaking yourself.
This isn’t about shaming your past choices. It’s about finally having the tools, insight, and support to do something different. Something bold. Something that actually works.
You want relationships that don’t compromise your autonomy, integrity or self-worth.
Mutual, steady, emotionally available relationships that feel aligned with who you are, not draining you or forcing you to shrink. You’re done sacrificing your identity for connection. You want love life that respects your boundaries, values your time, and honours your worth.
You want science, not guesswork.
You’re intelligent. You’ve read the books, done the therapy, listened to the podcasts. You’re ready for depth, clarity, and evidence-backed tools that actually change the way you show up in relationships.
You want to trust yourself. Your intuition. Your boundaries. Your choices. Your sense of what feels right. Not questioning. Not apologising. Not shrinking.
You’re ready to rise into the version of you who:
Doesn’t chase.
Doesn’t shrink.
Doesn’t negotiate with crumbs.
Doesn’t collapse into old wounds or abandon yourself just to be chosen.
The you whose worth is embodied — not performed — and whose standards are non-negotiable.
This isn’t a program about finding you a partner.
It’s about transforming how you show up, which shifts who you choose, how you love, and what you allow.
And that’s what Love Shadows delivers — a full recalibration of your patterns, your power, and your presence in love.
The Transformation
(What You Actually Get)
This isn’t just a course.
This is the moment your love life finally catches up to the rest of your life.
Because the truth is:
You don’t need more information.
You don’t need more “awareness.”
You don’t need more theory on attachment styles.
You need change — real, embodied, identity-level change.
And that’s exactly what Love Shadows delivers.
What you’ll get
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12 Transformational Modules
Each week, you’ll receive a video lesson (delivered on Fridays) that dives deep into the psychology, neuroscience, and relational dynamics behind your patterns.The Content: No generic advice. No cookie-cutter lessons. Every session is custom-built just for you—designed around your history, your patterns, and your goals. Nothing recycled. Nothing shared. Nothing diluted. This is mentorship that moves you forward fast, because it’s rooted in your story, your life, and your challenges.
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6 × 2-Hour Private Mentoring Sessions
Deep, personalised guidance to break old patterns, raise your standards, and create real, lasting shifts in how you date, connect, and show up in relationships. -
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Powerful Implementation Tools
Every module comes with everything you need. Real tools. Real shifts. Real-life results.Support That Keeps You Moving
Text, voice, and weekly check-ins to make sure you don’t just learn—it sticks, and you show up differently every week.
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Are you ready?
This isn’t just a program — it’s an identity shift.
This program combines evidence-based strategies, somatic and relational insight, and hands-on mentorship to help you:
✔ understand your patterns
✔ raise your standards
✔ stop self-abandoning
✔ stop obsessing over people who cannot meet you
✔ make confident choices that honour your worth
This work will teach you how to walk away from what drains you — and walk toward what aligns with you.
Interested but on the fence?
Book a discovery call with me and let’s chat!
Are you ready?
The Application
Apply to join the program by completing the application form below, and I will be in touch with you ASAP.
Please note spaces are strictly limited.
Once you submit the form, I will reach out to you via email within 48 hours.
My Promise
In this program, you’ll discover the shadows, blocks and patterns keeping you stuck in love and how to finally get unstuck.
Are you ready?
Let’s do this together!
This program requires full commitment. For that reason, all sales are final and non-refundable.
I encourage you to read the terms and conditions HERE before enrolling to ensure it’s the right fit for you.